Some may believe themselves to be connected when they get married.  They say things like now that I’m married I can stop searching for a mate.  I "have" somebody now.  And now there will always be somebody in my court.

Though in the case of marriage, as many o...

In response to a commenter on a recent blog, I’d like to explore the notion of choosing the same “bad for me” mate. 

It is my belief that when a person is born through the current age s/he is actively making a model of both who s/he is and who s/he is attracted to.  Ass...

The Webster Dictionary describes intimacy as a close familiarity or friendship; closeness. Synonyms for the word are closeness, togetherness, affinity, rapport, attachment, familiarity, amity, affection or warmth. Sexual relations or lovemaking can be included as part...

In my work, I talk about attachment, emotions and how they affect relationships.  My clients regularly tell me that they are unfamiliar with the term attachment or the definition they have is incomplete.  This lack of awareness is the problem.

M...